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My mother is emotionally abusing me, yet again.

I haven't paid the car payment since October because of being unemployed the whole month of November and then all the bills and things I had to pay in December. I had told my mother that I would start paying them again in January. She obviously thought I'd ignore a call from her because we had the following text conversation:

Her: I'm at the church with Laci for game night. May I come by and she can get out for me
Me: What? (because can she be any more cryptic?)
Her: Sorry for the car payment
Me: I mailed it yesterday. (I had decided to mail them everything I owe them because I never know when I'll see them again) You should have gotten it today. (mail within the same town usually only takes one day)
Her: Oh for goodness sake. This is not good
Me: What? (I'm panicking thinking she's going to say it wasn't in the mail today and that it might have gotten lost)
Her: That you want even come see me
Me: That's not why I mailed it. (I mean it is, but she doesn't need to know that (and yes I know this is the conditioning of her emotional abuse))
Her: I am so glad to hear that (just wait until you passive-aggressively try to change me or get me to do what you want)